Remarriage is now a days a descent Restart... as I have mentioned 4 D of separations elsewhere Death , Distance , Divorce , Dissatisfaction leads to this situations ...
for a Hindu it is believed that marrying with any woman automatically changes wife's name and her kids name ... but legally something is to be done yet...
if the male , who is kid less or female is not having an issue .... can adopt a male or female child from orphanage or from own relatives , kiths keens after adopting son/daughter parents approval...
I married a widow with a kid ... and wanted to give all possible pleasures to the family and to take all the pleasures of family hood... so did following important things...
It has taken lot of consultations , hurdles , time consuming , irking behaviors of some stone faces and all with some sparks of acclaiming too.
if kid is below 15 that is before the board exams let us put it Xth Std.
this is best done...
*Do religious ceremony for the relatives and myths .....the acceptance in family increases....
then
*Apply in court for custody of the kid ... even one is married to the same persons who is mother or father of the CHILD ..
Most important : for Gujarat govt. procedures....
* Apply for a Dattak Vidhan ... adoption deed दत्तक विधान
to be done at registrar office where
wills , deeds ,property transfers are registered..
Where photo scanning Thumb impression will be done... too
consenting mother or parent.. courts verdict saying yes ... justification in doing so... if one has kids cannot adopt...
*
After this registration the certified copy ... along with remarriage certies.. cause of proof for why single parents , court order , THIS DATTAK DEED / VIDHAN it is to be sent to Rajkot for Gadgets publication .. where every Thursday govt . gazettes are published where in name change will be published in turn..
Court took 45 Days Schedule granting the petition for adoption as per routine ... as there was no objections.. in case of controversies ... court's verdict is FINAL.
The publication in gazettes is taking 1 month on avg. for name transfer...
by paying necessary fees one gets the copy of gadgets at home address...
now the name of wife and son both gets changed... and they are allowed legally to do so..
for educational , social , property deal purposes , passport purposes and so on...
After the gazzett publications changed name publications DEO District Education Officer શિક્ષણાધિકારી શ્રી, અમદાવાદ જિલ્લો શહેર.. was applied via school with necessarydiff form filling .... notary once again.. in due course we received YES Father name change and surname change .. took place...Time.... they first attend 12 then 10 and lower down... done at snail pace.. but on demand and personal follow up can be done faster///
In my case.. after approaching DEO only within 72 Hrs I got the required letter.
ONE MORE formality still remains ..... where father's name change is to be honoured by metropoletean magistrate court No 8 in my case other is Court No 6 at old collector office relief road.... and other in Municipal KOTHA....
Order to change the certificates ... or to amend the certificates this two are authorised and geographical distribution wise they control birth registrar office... and authority to change...
Pass port people will take some hitches or would go through straight after this ... will be smooth sailing hopefully ... would like to up date..
The schools (including central school Board )in my case MISGUIDED me a LOT...
saying son's name cannot be transferred... father's name is genetic name and generic name is FINAL and so on..then they changed it to ... It cannot be done at our level... THE DELHI PEOPLE WILL ASK U TO DO THOSE PROCEDURES ... all half hearted truths ...
I am forced to write on blog about this... as this may be giving a lot of guidance... as ironically mother's name gets changed faster .... schools starting and fathers name transfer in pipe line...... After marriage ... specially remarriage ,,,,, this kind of social synthesis and bridging should be fast done...
The Honorable judge Shri Name is not written for technical reasons..
I thank publicly to
lawyer Devashree , ,,,,,,,,
Ibibo vakil Babu..Panel leading Hon advocates
Shri Gautam Prasad , shri Satish Maheshwari
Principal Gujarat govt recognised school Ghanshyambhai
Rathod Sir, Kanubhai concern officers.. at DEO, Ahmedabad.
Rathod Sir, Kanubhai concern officers.. at DEO, Ahmedabad.
My friends , colleagues , kiths keens , ALL...
Hope it guides ....
To add
ReplyDeleteThe Vidhan Procedure took A DAy only...
as court verdict was there ... widow mother marrying to adoption doing father ..
Rest of dept said if gadgettes published ... we will accept..
so within span of 3 to 4 months avg TOTAL TIME worth spending...
One more beurocratic small hurdle is on a way ....
ReplyDeleteeducation department will also be required to be informed via school ...
they will do the name change granted .. accepted ... the form is available as form to change name / surname /caste or some basic details filing before 10th std annual examination forms are to be filled...... its customary and is o k.
This can be done in Birth Certificate name change ALSO....
ReplyDeletePlease NOTE...
as there are no separate columns in lot many countries even...
couple can apply name change in birth certificate itself !!!
in my case it was done easily as remarriage with widow consenting with all
dattak vidhan registrar's office , government gazettes , municipal authorities , school authorities , DISTRICT COURT initiated name change drive in this case. metropolitan magistrate who handles name rectification procedures before municipality agreeing name change OFFICIALLY , pass port is applied after new birth certificate so do it fast for hustle free before board exam ...
This takes about very few bucks modified as per requirements and hurdles ,,, in my case it was much a less ... as so many people even did not mind even the official consulting service charge.... well near 15 k
ReplyDeletemany greats in offices were surprised.... that how can a birth certificate father's name change took place...!! CONSENT and NO CLAIMS NO controversies smooth ens it.
ReplyDeletethe power to decide remains with the court at 2 level , District court granting ADOPTIONS and Metro polite an granting at municipal level
at very root level municipality level name change takes place ...
every pupil has unique number ... those are finalized and can be modified before 10 th passing... easily
government gazettes publication name change procedure is simple routine after dattak VIDHAN...
ReplyDeleteThese court procedures have been adopted by many big names , big houses , big empires , kings , estates ,
It adds the sugar in relation ships ....
ReplyDeleteas wife name change occurs and is accepted spontaneously the kid coming with has to deal with a difference in surname if subjected to ... so wise men have made a way to deal with it... it also seals the controversies ... with no injustice to biological parents...